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Conversation Between Two Boys About Menstruation

  • Writer: Admin
    Admin
  • Apr 16
  • 3 min read



The other day, while taking a stroll in the park, I decided to sit on a bench near an old banyan tree to enjoy the greenery around. As I sat, I heard two boys - Ravi and Sameer, conversing on the other side of the tree. They were close enough for me to be able to hear them. Though I didn’t mean to eavesdrop, I couldn’t help but listen.


Their conversation was intriguing and left me with much to think about. Here’s what transpired:


Ravi: Hey Sameer, I heard some girls talking about periods in school today. What is a period really?


Sameer: Oh, that's menstruation. It's a natural biological process that happens to girls and women.

Ravi: Natural process? I don't get it. Can you explain?


Sameer: Sure. So, menstruation is when a girl’s body sheds the lining of her uterus. This lining, along with some blood, exits her body through her vagina. It usually happens once a month and is a sign that her body is getting ready for a potential pregnancy in the future.


Ravi: Wow, I had no idea. Is it painful?


Sameer: It can be uncomfortable for many girls. Some experience cramps, bloating, and mood swings. It's different for everyone. Some girls have mild symptoms, while others might find it quite painful.


Ravi: Why are periods made to be a big mystery. Why don’t people talk about it openly?


Sameer: There’s a lot of stigma and taboos around menstruation. Many cultures see it as something shameful or dirty.


Ravi: That’s not fair. 


Sameer: Exactly. That’s why it’s important for everyone to be educated about it, not just girls. Men and boys should also know so they can support their female friends and the women in their families.


Ravi: But I wonder how can we support our female friends or family who are going through this?


Sameer: To begin with by being understanding and not making fun of them. If a friend needs help, like getting a pad or just needs someone to talk to, we should be there for them. Also, it helps to be knowledgeable so we can break the cycle of ignorance and stigma.


Ravi: That makes sense. Don’t you think schools should teach us about this?


Sameer: Definitely. Comprehensive sex education, including information about menstruation, must be taught. It would help boys to understand the girls and women around them better. This would promote a healthier, more respectful society.


Ravi: Thanks, Sameer. I’m glad we talked about this. I’ll be more sensitive and caring towards girls or women in my environment going through this cycle. 


Sameer: Anytime, buddy. Remember, knowledge is power. The more we know, the better we can support each other.


As the boys walked out of the park, I reflected on how little most men know about menstruation and how important it is to educate men and boys about this natural biological process. 


Inspired by this conversation, I decided to research how much men and boys know about menstruation in India. During my research, I stumbled upon a qualitative study titled ‘We do not know,’ published in 2017. This study delves into boys’ perceptions of menstruation in India. The title alone speaks volumes, capturing the essence of the widespread ignorance and the urgent need for awareness.


You can read the study here. Trust me, it’s an eye-opener!



Bela Sharma

Manager, Communications

Sulabh International


 
 
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